SELFISHNESS

SELFISHNESS

I’m just going to say this straight forwardly. Every human being in this world, men women boys and girls all of us was born and grow up with selfish kind of attitude since the very first time we breathe the air of this world. We cry when we feel sad we scream when we’re angry and we smile when we’re happy.

And I have to say that the one that we love most is no one but ourselves. No matter how strongly we disagree to it, no one can ever deny the voice inside their heart that says a yes to it. Selfishness is always part of every human being since a very long time ago.

• We do what we want to do
• We give lots of demands
• We want our wishes to be true
• We want people to do what we want
• We want to turn people into the kind of people that we want them to become
• Those are the essence of us as a human being

It leaves us into two kinds of people:

First, the kind of people who agree to that truth, and admit that we all are selfish people and make the effort to change that ugly behavior.

Second, the kinds of person who deny that truth but he himself in daily life are being a total selfish person which means now they have three bad behaviors. First is selfish, second is hypocrite, third is liar.

Now, my point of sharing this fact is even though we have this selfish behavior that is totally hard for us to take out from our lives, but we are all human being and we are being given the power to choose who we want to become.

We may all live in this world and stand In the middle of worldly people. But never let ourselves becoming one of them.

Make your life meaningful to everybody. To do this, you can start with your family and all the ones that you also consider as your family.

Second, you can continue with your people who need help

And third, you can end it with God.

The moment you try to please your family and everyone who needs help, you are pleasing God. When you try to please all three of them, you are actually pleasing yourself.

But the moment you try to please yourself by doing just what you think is right, by doing whatever you want; you end up not having any meanings in your life.

You may feel happy you may feel good all the time. But there will be a time where it all will come to an end and you will live with regrets.