JESSICA LONA |
Assumptions
Mankind
never able to run away from problems. Each day passes by and problems keep on
coming and going. And it is human’s nature to try and solve their problems
whatever that is. Unfortunately, many of us try to solve problems by assuming
the cause of that problem. This isn’t wise at all. Assuming is when we are
trying to guess something. Remember, the conclusion that we get from assuming
anything, is not always the real truth or fact. But many of us always believe
that what we think is always right. This is a real bad attitude.
The
moment we assume things, it is possible that we will gather the wrong facts. By
this time, we will be fully controlled by our emotions rather than our logic. A
person who is in the middle of a problem and relying on their assumptions is
very emotional. This emotional feeling
unconsciously makes the brain to affirm what we assume to be true. It will
cause a person to make the wrong decision in solving their problems which will
lead to a state where a problem gets harder to solve.
To
make this short, at any situation, never let your emotional self to drive you
away from the problem solver. Yes, it is humans’ tendency to follow emotions in
solving problems but everyone needs self - control. It helps to clear the mind
and think wisely. There was a phrase that says “When you think you know
something, you actually know nothing.” The truth is always several steps ahead
of us when we think that we r always right will show our every weaknesses and
assuming will only lead us further away from it.
By:
Jessica Lona
Date:
17th November 2012
Short
message to everyone who reads this.