The readiness
level of a person in going through their real life is not measured by age,
whether he’s older or younger but by level of maturity.
A person who are
older, does not mean that he got enough maturity inside of him.
But a person who
are younger, doesn’t always mean that he’s less mature.
There’s a
statement that says a person is called mature by the force of his
circumstances.
But I personally
completely disagree to that statement because a person is becoming mature or
immature depending on themselves, according to what they decide for themselves.
But it is very
important to remember that an adult or young adult who are immature or in other
words not yet mature, most likely they won’t be able to decide what’s best for
themselves. The only thing they know is their own desires.
Because the fact
is, anyone who is immature, they won’t be able to recognize and differentiate
which is called the best and which is called their own desires.
There are other
statements as well that says a person who is able to make a living for himself
is called mature.
In this world
people work for many reasons.
There are people
who work because they want to gain some respect, there are others who want
people to be afraid of him, some wants to make a living for the family, some
people work for revenge, and there are people who work because he want to be
needed by everyone, which means he want to be the one important that other
people seeks.
Anyone immature,
they are very unstable and naïve. They get caught up with their feeling too
much. This kind of people tends to make the same mistakes. They always act
before they even consider all the consequences.
Most of the time
they try to stop making that same mistake but when it comes to a moment where
they are being faced with the same situation some other day, they still
couldn’t resist their ego and emotions and at the end it will be hard for them
to step out from a problem. It’s like they are wandering in the same place
without knowing the way out.
Anyone immature
is having a difficult time in resisting their personal desires. They tend to
show their disappointments whenever they couldn’t get what they want directly
or indirectly.
I’ve mentioned
in the previous paragraph that immature people is unstable or changing. This
matter at the end becoming the reason why immature people couldn’t be trusted
in keeping their promises.
The main thing
that I want to communicate is that this world never want to wait for us to
become mature especially in a world like where everything doesn’t always happen
according to our wish. It takes a great strength to be mature. It requires a
great strength to hold back our egos and personal desires.
This world isn’t
fit for immature kind of humans any longer because we all are being forced to
be mature including the young ones.
Stop pushing
people too much in order to make your wish becoming true.
Don’t love one
another to expect something back. But love one another because everybody
deserved to be loved.
Don’t be there
for someone because you want to be needed. But be there for someone at all
times because you really have a pure heart.
Don’t make that
togetherness to happen at only a certain times. But make it happen at all times
because this life is a short life.
Never seek each
other faults or weaknesses because the moment you try to find it, you will
always find lots of it. But ask to yourself, will that make you a better
person.
Become a person
who the words can always be trusted because it shows a man’s quality.
Never run away
from problem because the moment you run, wherever you set your foot on, there
lies the same problem. But let us become people who solve each problem with a
heart full of patience.
Let us not be
faithful because of receiving something in return. But let us all be faithful
because we are all meant to be faithful people.
This is only a
small portion of something that I want to share to all of you I’m not saying
that not everybody can have maturity because at the end everybody will get to
it.
But there are people who reach it while they’re still got the time and some
reach it when they got not much time anymore.
Maturity
requires a great willingness because its impossible to be reached without
consistency.
And it’s not
something that can be gained by force of other people or situations. It have to
come naturally from yourself.
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